Arfa Karim Randhawa-youngest MCSE professional is dying in  CMH hospital. What a terrible news this is! She is the one, who is known all over the world as the brain of Pakistan. The proud of not only her parents but of the whole nation. How can we just do it? Let her lying on a hospital bed and watching her dying? Where are the molvis? Where every thing fails, dua works...Why not they appeal to the nation to raise hands for her health? Where are the leaders? Why does the KHADIM E ALLA not call a team of foreign experts, if  local doctors are failed to predict? Where is the media? The media that is famous for raising the storm in a tea cup. Why the media is not putting the doctors on camera? Why her father is briefing the media about her condition? WHY WHY WHY?
She is the asset, Pakistan needs her. She is the one who can be the light and who can lead the way. May Allah bless her with health!
Lets PRAY!! That is what everyone of us can do for her. Miracles do happen. I hope my nation is gonna witness one this time INSHALLAH!

My blog is not about social writings but the trauma of silence on a national loss has forced me to write.

In this fast forwarding world; the most important gift is your "time" that you give to someone-anyone.

 It becomes more valuable and precious if spend with family.
Life, I believe is meaningless without a family. We live, we work, we smile, we get tensed, feels blue, lonely, happy etc, because of the family and for the family.


How about doing something to let other members of our family feel important? How about taking some time out of our busy schedule and cook for our family? Anything that is cooked with care and love will work as a catalyst and will strengthen up the bond of love. As an old subcontinental proverb says: "The way to your husband's heart passes through his stomach". This is equally working for every single member of your family and not for husbands or wives specifically. If you are the male members i.e. fathers or brothers, cooking on week ends will let your wives, mothers and sisters feel special and yes boys, your mum gonna get an off day too :). If you are the sisters and daughters,


then you are the most privileged and also the luckiest member of your family. You are being loved and protected by your fathers and brothers.Whats the hurdle in touching their hearts then? Not necessarily you have to cook something special to value them. Simple and routine dishes can win hearts, the only thing required is LOVE. This four letter word is the basic ingredient; this is the secrete of delicious cooking and successful happy life. Make your moments memorable, value those, who makes you feel special!